I think I might be pregnant. I took a home pregnancy test and...

Dr. Seckin was the first person to ever mention the word endometriosis to me. I was his patient. I was probably 25 at the time and he had done part of his general introductory questions, asked me about my menstrual cycle and asked me if I had pain associated with it, and I said, “Of course, doesn’t everybody?” Asking a few additional questions he basically said, “I think you may have endometriosis." I said, “I’d never heard of that, I don’t know what that is,” and wasn’t interested in going any further because I just thought he was kind of being a little off base. He gave me a prescription for Anaprox and I went on my way.

Fast forward a few years later and the pain kind of got more intense to the point where – I was a practising attorney at the time - I would literally organize or try to organize my deposition schedule, my court appearances around my period because I knew there would be at least one day of the month that I was going to be out of commission. I went back to Dr. Seckin and said, “Tell me a little more about this endometriosis thing. I think I am interested in getting that surgical treatment you talked about." Just about nine years I went back to Dr. Seckin and said, “Look, I think the endometriosis is back. I want to start trying to get pregnant. What do you think we do?” He said, “Let’s go and do another lab." I remember this day very vividly. We did the surgery. He called me up afterward to tell me how it went and said to me that it was back and it was very aggressive and one of my tubes was very diseased. If he knew I wasn’t trying to have a baby he would have removed it. But don’t worry; I think we still have a very good chance of getting you pregnant. Well, I hung up the phone and proceeded to cry. My husband called and I told him the story and he said, “Don’t worry, you know we’ll try." Dr. Seckin gave me three months post-surgery to get pregnant on my own before he was going to – you know, given my age - push me to a fertility clinic.

I went into Dr. Seckin’s office saying, “I think I might be pregnant. I took a home pregnancy test” and sure enough he confirmed it and gave me a high five and I gave birth to my son at age 41. The odds… I knew what the odds were. At 40, generically, your odds of getting pregnant are usually about five percent any given month. With endometriosis it takes it down to close to two percent. Things happen for a reason and I had a doctor who made a point to always bring it up to me. I was the one, unlike a lot of other woman, I was like “Ah, I’m fine. This is what woman do, they have cramps every month. My mom had them, my grandmother had them, you know, this is what women have”. If I was in another doctor’s care my chances of having my son would probably have been zero. Every day I thank God I had a doctor who was aware of the disease, who was aggressive about treating it and aggressive about educating me. He really made an impact in my life in a profound way because I had this amazing little boy at age 41 that I think the mainstream medical profession would have said ‘no way, it’s not possible’ but it is.

If you are getting monthly pain it’s not normal. If you have to take narcotics in order to cope with your daily routine during your menstrual cycle that’s not normal. My sister and I both thought that was normal. That’s not normal. And if that is what you are feeling every month, talk to your doctor. Bring it up and if your doctor doesn’t want to talk to you about it or dismisses it, find one who will. If you are not getting pregnant and you are trying, ask about endometriosis. People do hormone level tests, they do this but the endometriosis treatment seems to get dismissed in the fertility mix.

Selena 

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    I came to Dr. Seckin after years of dealing with endometriosis and doctors who didn't fully understand the disease. He quickly ascertained what needed to be done, laid out the options along with his recommendation and gave me the time to make the right decision for me. My surgery went without a hitch and I'm healing very well. He and…

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    Dr. Seckin brought me back to life! I am now 3 weeks into my recovery after my laparoscopy surgery, and I feel like a new and improved woman! Being diagnosed with Endometriosis, then 25yrs old in 2015, and discovering the severity of my case being stage 4, made me devastated. Dr. Seckin's vast knowledge of the disease, sincere empathy, and…

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    My wife had her laparoscopic excision surgery to remove endometriosis with Dr. Seckin on Jan 30, 2014. She doesn't write online reviews so I'm writing this on her behalf. I accompanied her with each office visit she had. The staff--Lucy and Kim, are very friendly, warm and professional. Dr. Seckin was excellent in every capacity. He spent a lot of…

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    He is an awesome doctor who saved my daughters life from debilitating endometriosis..she knew instantly upon awaking from surgery that she was better..that wad May and no complaints only praises for Dr. Wonderful Seckin!!

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    I was diagnosed with Endometriosis at 19. I saw several Endometriosis "Specialists" since then, had a few laproscopic surgeries to "remove" the endometriosis and continued to be in pain. I had a hysterectomy in 2012 and was told this would stop the pain once and for all. No such luck! Tired of spending days in bed with a heating pad,…

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    I researched and found Dr. Seckin after dealing with years of doctors who couldn't help me or refused to go the extra mile for their patients. I have to say I am truly blessed to have found such a compassionate and talented doctor. He is exquisite with everything he does, and both his team at the office and surgical team…

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    Dr. Seckin is a very skilled surgeon. There are not many doctors like him that truly understand the effects of endometriosis. I am lucky to have found him. The staff is wonderful too.

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    Dr. Seckin truly LOVES what he does and cares about his patients from the bottom of his heart. My life has already changed in 3 weeks and I couldn’t be more grateful. Should I ever need another operation for endometriosis, Dr. Seckin will be the one to do it. I recommend him to anyone I come across with similar problems…

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    Dr. Seckin is an amazing Doctor he is very compassionate, caring and he will be honest with you. He's been my doctor for 19yrs and I am so grateful to have someone taking care of me that knows what he is doing and knows the best way to treat each and every situation. I would definitely recommend him and his…