by Tamer Seckin, MD | Posted on June 10, 2020
Dyspareunia is the medical term used to define painful sexual intercourse. It is one of the most common symptoms of endometriosis  and yet the one many patients and doctors find most uncomfortable to discuss, causing further emotional distress, and strain on relationships.
According to a study  published in the journal Reproductive Sciences, about two-thirds of women with endometriosis have some sexual dysfunction, including pain during sexual intercourse.
Endometriosis  results when the endometrium, or the lining of the uterus, grows outside the uterus, for example, in and around the ovaries, the fallopian tubes, and the bowels. These misplaced growths can cause inflammation and scarring.
During intercourse, the endometriosis lesions and nodules can be stretched and pulled and cause pain.
Another cause of pain during sex could be vaginal dryness, which can result from hormonal treatments  a woman with endometriosis may take to reduce the symptoms of the condition. Oopherectomy, or the removal of the ovaries, is sometimes performed to treat endometriosis and can also cause vaginal dryness. This occurs because the removal of the ovaries reduces circulating estrogen levels, which in turn can lead to vaginal dryness and discomfort during intercourse. Some women elect not to have hormone replacement and may try new therapies such as hyaluronic acid or lubricants.
The painful sex experienced by endo women can range from mild to excruciating . They may describe the pain as a sharp stabbing or jabbing, or a deep abdominal ache.
The intensity and duration of dyspareunia or painful intercourse depend on the location and spread of the endometrial lesions.
However, not all women with endometriosis experience pain during sex, and for those who do, the pain they experience may be very different.
Some women may experience pain in any sexual position, while others may only feel pain with deep pain and penetration.
While some women experience pain during sex only at certain times of the month, i.e., around the time of their period, others can have pain during sex at all times.
Some women may experience pain only during intercourse. Others may experience pain up to 24 to 48 hours after intercourse, or only following intercourse . This may be a cramping sensation lasting for a few days afterward.
While it may be uncomfortable for a woman to tell her doctor that she is experiencing pain during sex, or detail the sexual positions she experiences pain in, this is an extremely important symptom of endometriosis. These questions can help your doctor zero in on where your endometriosis lesions may be. Any good endometriosis specialist should be asking these questions and examining their patient thoroughly to see if they can target where the pain is emanating from. This provides a surgical road map of where the patient's nodules and endometriosis may be. Pain during sex can be a first sign of endometriosis, so it is crucial to speak to your doctor honestly to help them diagnose the disease early on. Additionally, speaking opening about your pain during sex can help avoid emotional distress in your relationships.
Endometriosis treatments such as laparoscopic surgery performed by an expert endometriosis excision surgeon  can also help improve dyspareunia.
Remember, there is no way to treat endometriosis-associated dyspareunia without addressing its underlying cause, which is the growth of the lining of the uterus elsewhere in the abdomen. However, there are non-surgical ways to reduce pain during intercourse for women with endometriosis who deserve to increase their quality of life. These include:
Trying different positions that may make sex less painful.
Having sex around the time of or during the menstrual cycle when sex may be less painful.
Being open and talking about the situation with partners.
A counselor or sex therapist may also be able to help couples navigate the situation.
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